Victim Victorious
Winged-Women™ is designed to give wings to every woman, globally, not merely taking women from an investment in victim to victorious status, but something much more expansive and all encompassing of the female species. In fact, Winged-Women™ is vastly more than even that. It’s about taking all women, whether they are living in a victim role, or simply not thriving to greatest potential, to a higher state of mind-body-spirit alignment; of providing the tools to help every woman step into the role she desires, and consciously make that beautiful, powerful full-winged shift without hurting anyone in the process….
Winged-Women™ is about self-love and acceptance, whoever you are, however you are. Click To Tweet
Having worked to lovingly empower women for over 3o years, here’s what I believe: Women worldwide are connected with a common thread of self-worth. In 100% of the cases, women do not value themselves over others. The feminine principle of nurturing others, of caring and compassion for others, often stops short of self-care.
Often, women care and nurture to a fault. That fault being not extending the same level of love and care to the self. As a result, there are a lot of hidden resentments that may take root, and eventually sprout into accusations fired outward as anger, or which are turned inward and manifest as depression.
And also in 100% of the cases, women see their self reflection very differently than does the rest of the world….
Women are the harshest critics of themselves, and this is why the need for Winged-Women™ coaching. Click To Tweet
Winged-Women™ is not about turning women into anything other than who each is, individually. It’s about helping women to step into self-love. It’s about empowering women to “own the whole” of who they are uniquely.
In fact, our motto is:
“You have one purpose in this life,
and that is to learn to love every facet of who you are.”
Self-love takes a back seat (if it even makes the trip) to caring for others. #WingedWomen™ Click To Tweet
Unfortunately, humans can harbor hidden resentments (HR’s) to the point of no return when that burn-out seethes up. We’ve all witnessed seemingly strong relationships disintegrate due to miscommunication in a ‘he said-she said’ explosion, when actually what’s true is that no one communicated anything of clarity and value. Each was too invested in being right, and in feeling injured to adequately express any real value. Had the parties actually owned their voices, said what needed to be said, communicated needs and wants in respectful clear forms of communication, the relationship may have thrived. Instead, it dies an ugly death in a rinse and repeat failure formula, that awaits the next unskilled party.
Do you harbor hidden resentments?
Do you stuff your feelings, rather than expressing them?
Do you ever wish you were more assertive?
Do your needs go unmet, simply because you don’t have the confidence to ask for what you need and desire?
This self-sabotage has everything to do with poor self-love and self-care.
Scheduling in “me time” to care and nurture the whole self, mind/mentally, spirit/emotionally & spiritually, and body/physical intake and movement and pampering, is imperative for everyone, and most particularly, for those involved with others…which by the way, is pretty much everyone on the planet.
No Time for Self-Care, you lament….
“No time for self-care,” you say? Here’s why you must get off the hamster wheel, stop making excuses, and release once and for all, that victim/martyr excuse for not placing self-nurturing care above all else:
- When we care for ourselves, we are best equipped to go out into the world and handle what comes our way.
- When we care for ourselves, we have more to share, energetically, with loved-ones, acquaintances, associates, and strangers.
- When we care for ourselves, we are most inclined to receptivity, and receptivity is feminine power at its purest state.
Being Open to Receiving Requires Self-Love…
Receptivity is the condition necessary for allowing abundance to flow. That includes abundance of love, wealth, bliss, health, creativity, and happiness. You cannot choke off the energetic flow of abundance of love -including self-love, and expect all other areas of life to be in balance. It’s just not possible.
Let me add here, the incidences of breast cancer, ovarian cancer, and other womanly maladies are possibly caused as a link to feeling like the tit to the world. If you care and nurture others to the point of your exhaustion, and you do not give your whole self the same level of attention you lavish onto others, you are imbalanced. And the natural, optimal state of being human is to be in homeostasis, which means balance, mind-body-spirit. Being out of that alignment opens the human organism (aka you) up to serious dis-ease which may manifest as diseases.
Seek soft, continuous balance in body, mind and spirit for health, longevity and happiness. Click To Tweet
Here’s the thing: You are whole/gestalt. You are a mind-body-spirit whole person, perfect in your humanness. And when each piece of your “whole” self is acknowledged and nurtured, your whole life improves. It can be no other way, as you are then in integrity, which is your strongest state of being.
- Relationships are up-leveled.
- Opportunities are increased.
- Health improves.
- Creativity becomes fluid.
- Money and blessings flow in, unobstructed.
- Self-esteem improves….
Redefine selfish to mean self-care and then become really, really selfish 🙂 http://Winged-Women.com Click To Tweet
Who cannot benefit from an unapologetic conviction to authentic self love? Click To Tweet
Regardless of our level of commitment to self-care, regardless of how large or small our investment in playing the victim role, of not owning our voices, our feminine powers, our lives, we can all move a degree or more from victim to Victim Victorious, simply by taking action steps daily to feed our whole gestalt self.
Rather than wait for someone else to fill you up, commit to self-care. Click To Tweet
Give yourself permission to care for you. The world is better for you loving you. Click To Tweet
So, thank you.
And, thank you often. 😉
PS ~ Want to learn more? Here are some options for enhancing self-love:
Escaping the Chrysalis: Self-Esteem Tools for Transformation
Escaping the Chrysalis Companion Workbook
Infinite Pie: From Finance to Romance, the Parallel Feminine Frequency of Money & Love
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