Are YOU Blocking Abundance Because of Your $elf-Worth?
Take a minute to really feel that sentence on your tongue and on your heart. Make it your own, as you say it: I deserve what I desire. If your situation allows for it, say it out loud. If not, repeat the sentence in your mind, and really become mindful of what comes up.
- Does the sentence, I deserve what I desire lead to sarcasm?
- Does it cause you to giggle in doubt?
- Does it cause a quickening of your heart?
- Do you choke on the notion that you deserve all that you desire?
- Do you easily slip into the affirmation, owning your right to all that you desire?
Several client conversations over the past week two weeks have centered around the subject of money. At least, on the surface that’s what they appeared to be about. Lifting the top couple of layers, however, reveals that each of these coaching calls had deep roots in self-worth…. Specifically, the roots of lack are the same roots of self-worth and deserving.
The subject of how abundance shows up (or not) is not just a symptom of holiday spending. The truth is, the subject of abundance and deserving have come up in coaching for all of the 34+ years I’ve been working as a coach/consultant. And it comes up equally for both men and women.
That’s probably not news to you. You are probably very savvy at the whole “self-esteem affects every part of your life,” truth. And that’s a great start; That level of awareness is at the foundation of your success in life.
But knowing something, and being capable of commanding the desired outcome are two separate things. Add to that mix, the internalized lessons that you’ve learned from birth, and there are multiple layers to lift, corners to peek at in order to get to the core of where abundance is stuck. Once we get to that core, we can transmute the energies into a free-circulation of abundance. And when that dam breaks, the flow is rapid.
Sometimes, clients want to believe that change takes an enormous investment of time and money. The truth is, change happens at the exact moment when you decide to change. As soon as you commit, the transformation begins. It’s like an order you’ve placed at the deli: The abundance soup is being made the moment you decide to order it up. It happens when you learn the basic technique for allowing the abundance of whatever it is that you desire, and that only happens when you decide to consciously cease living in lack, and to consciously create an avenue of allowing for all your good to flow in….
Here’s the short story that explains what makes me the voice of authority when considering the techniques for learning to live an abundant life:
I was raised in poverty. It was a brutal childhood that resulted in me not feeling “good-enough” as compared to classmates. My father had died, leaving my mother, pregnant, and with 4 children to feed. She failed miserably. Without my father to provide for us, the family shattered a fragile death, and we were all sent to various foster homes for so-called care.
As I grew, I learned that I was different, that most other children had a safe and welcoming home, and a family that loved them. Basic necessary levels of security and love were missing from my life. This led me to a life of searching, of learning by comparison. And that journey had led to my mastery of manifestation techniques, which I now share in my books and workshops and coaching. There are no accidents, and I believe I was born into the exact perfect circumstances in which to learn exactly what I needed to learn, and to share that experience so others can benefit too.
Please know that when I discuss abundance it is as the river for abundance of love, joy, money, possibilities, and all that you desire. At the core, is abundance of self-love, and from there, the rest radiates outward like the tributaries to the oceans.
Theory of Needs
If you’re familiar with Abraham Maslo’s, five-tiered Theory of Needs* you may recall that, in his hierarchical theory, physiological foundational levels such as food and water are of first importance, second is safety needs, third is belongingness & love, fourth is esteem, and finally, only when these basics are met, can there be full self-actualization. Each of Maslo’s steps is fundamental to the whole expression of life and achievement. As example, if safety or security is missing, one cannot expect to rise to the next levels of actualization. In short, Maslo claims that above all else, food and water (basic physiological needs) must come before personal security, which must exist before one can reach the next level, which is love. When any of these fundamental blocks are missing, there is an enormous imbalance, a mis-alignment that makes it difficult or impossible to attain a consistent flow of abundance or achievement of anything worthwhile.
Learning to command a life of abundance and prosperity is like knowing how to turn on and off a facet. It can be a slow drip, a steady flow, or an unrestricted stream, once you’ve learned to adjust the flow.
Money, love, happiness, are nothing more or less than energy. Abundance is energy, just as you are energy. If you don’t have the abundance in any area you desire, it can be remedied by learning to open your energetic heart to your divine deserving nature. Once you’ve mastered this ability to manifest the life you desire and deserve, you will never return to your old scarcity ways….
If you desire help with your inner blocks, consider scheduling a private Breakthrough Session. Together, we can help you to open to receiving the abundance of love and money you deserve. My proprietary process causes permanent, rapid transformation in 30 days or less. To learn more, click here: http://winged-women.com/breakthrough/
• You can get to your inner blocks and dis-integrate the clog in your abundance flow.
• You can decide for yourself, what lessons to keep and what to release.
• You can determine your self-worth and increase your wealth thermostat.
What you desire, you deserve.
When you get clear on your self-worth, you will know that you deserve the life of your desires. At that point, you can set your intentions to allowing. And it’s in the state of allowing that all your desires are manifest. There is a simple, repeatable process for attracting abundance, whether that desire is for abundance of love, of joy, of money, of self-worth. The process, once learned, will be at your fingertips for use whenever you want to attract more abundance….
Whether you invest in a Breakthrough, in Personal Coaching, buy a copy of Infinite Pie, or choose to go it alone, you can begin to nudge open the stream of abundance when you start to raise your self-esteem by affirming your right to your desires. I encourage you to place your hand on your heart, and feel the emotion of gratitude for all the abundance in your life currently. This could be an abundance of material things, a warm safe place to live, food in your belly and pantry, money in the bank, or an abundance of good friends and people who care about you, or any number of things for which to feel abundant. Once you have brought up this inner feeling, really focus on it for a few moments, then look in your mirror, and repeat an affirmation that aligns your raised vibration to match that which you desire. Your affirmation can be something as simple as “I am open to receiving,” or “I am a money magnet,” or my personal favorite, “I deserve all that I desire.” Repeat your personal affirmation like a money mantra that reinforces your divine right to prosperity. When you inject the affirmation with the emotion of abundance, your manifesting magic will become apparent. It is a law of nature: The Law of Abundance.
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*Learn more about Abraham Maslo’s Theory of Needs in Escaping the Chrysalis available on Amazon: https://smile.amazon.com/Escaping-Chrysalis-Transform-Struggles-Strengths/dp/1515036928/
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Are you receiving all that you deserve? If not, why not? Let’s change that block into an open flowing stream of all you desire and deserve.
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