Dancing Around the Black Hole Rim
Whether in my head or out of my mouth, when talking to clients, I hear myself several times each week say some version of, “Focus on what’s working, and steer away from what’s not.”
“What we focus on, expands!” I say with fervor, enunciating the words for effect. It’s the next best thing to using expletives for emphasis. But fervor offends fewer people. 😉
It’s good advice; no doubt about that. What we place our focus on expands. That’s pretty basic by now. And so it follows that if we want something to come to fruition, that’s where we’ll place our focus if we’re serious.
And likewise, if we’re serious about not creating monsters, we don’t want to fertilize misery, scarcity, or challenges with our attention. And we especially don’t want to spend one millisecond in the frequency of worry. Worry is stolen time that could be better invested in focused inspired action. Worry is a bad habit that has no place in life.
So here’s the vulnerable raw side of all of this….
Because God knows, I AM human. Very. Very human. 😉
The truth is, this post probably shouldn’t even be here. It’s probably better suited for posting on my personal blog (http://www.JanDeelstra.com/blog) but with a nod to Halloween, all thru this month the posts there are about masks we wear. That means this post doesn’t really have a perfect home for a few more weeks. And the emotion is bubbling now….
For a few months, I have been dancing around the rim of a black hole…
Dancing around the black hole rim is a cross between avoidance, denial, and procrastination when faced with something you don’t want to look at. In fact, not only do I not want to look, I don’t even want to acknowledge the existence….
This is probably starting to lose you; it’s far to the weird as abstract goes. And maybe that’s more of the denial piece of the black hole avoidance.
You see, there is a pain in my body, that sometimes feels as if someone has pliers inside of me, and they have pinched an inch of my insides with the tool. It’s always there. And sometimes it doesn’t matter, as it’s just a part of me now. But once in a while, if I bend or move in a particular direction (which I haven’t been able to pin point so it could be avoided in the future) that pinch becomes a yelp-inducing twist that steals my breath.
And today, was a “yelp” day.
In other words, my focus was drawn to what’s wrong, and to not much else.
I hate the thought of my body needing external prodding and poking by physicians. Mostly that’s because I believe when we give our whole mind/body/spirit self everything it needs to keep it in alignment, it can heal itself.
And I guess if I’m honest, that balance is not the state I’ve been in for several months, maybe years. Every waking hour has been filled with the creation of the Winged-Women™ Academy, and with creation of content for all the courses that are being offered now and in the future. My passion is thriving, while my alignment in other life areas is definitely being neglected!
Anyway, I do feel as if I have been dancing around the black hole rim, skirting the issue of whatever is going on with the pliers inside my left side. Today though, this is my call to action to stop avoiding, and to take inspired action to fix whatever’s broken. I’m hoping instead of a black hole where I fall in and am at the mercy of the medical professionals, that it’s an easy fix. And so that’s where my focus is going to remain…somewhere between avoidance, denial, and positive envisioning of a miracle that takes this away while I go about life….
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